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So, stepmoms of the world: Love your stepson. Let him teach you how to change a tire or fix the Wi-Fi. Let him show you his favorite video game. But when it comes to learning to break a chokehold? Pay the $40 for the class at the community center. Your wrists—and your family holidays—will thank you.

She passes out for four seconds.

The goal is noble: Mom wants to feel safer walking the dog at dusk. The method is flawed: Letting a teenager teach her Krav Maga via YouTube clips. when+teaching+stepmom+self+defense+goes+wrong

The result: A trip to urgent care, a soft cast, and a husband who asks, "Why did you let him do that to you?" The stepmom spends the next six weeks unable to open a pickle jar, blaming the kid. The kid spends six weeks avoiding eye contact, terrified he has committed elder abuse. Every self-defense video starts with the same advice: "Kick them in the groin and run." It is sound advice for a street fight. It is horrific advice for a living room drill. So, stepmoms of the world: Love your stepson

Suddenly, the teenager is the authority. He is the aggressor (even when playing defense). She is the student. This role reversal triggers primal instincts. For the teen, it requires a level of restraint he does not yet possess. For the stepmom, it requires a level of physical aggression she has actively suppressed for two decades. But when it comes to learning to break a chokehold