When the Tuan is cruel 90% of the time but gives you a "Good boy/girl" or a sweet text 10% of the time, your brain gets addicted. The budak isn't stupid; they are chemically hooked on the hope of the next crumb of affection.
And those who stay? They won't call you budak . They'll call you back. When the Tuan is cruel 90% of the
Here is the final truth:
You are not in love with them. You are in love with the idea of them if they were kind, attentive, and respectful. They are not that person. Date the reality, not the potential. not the potential.